My partner doesn't want to touch me!?

Me and my parnter discovered that I fell pregnant on my birthday, the 6th of April this year and where expecting in December right around Christmas. Unfortunatly I had a missed misscarraige and had to go in and do a D and C to remove products of conception. After the hospital discharged me I had to go back over the following week because I was in excruciating pain and they figured out that they'd left some products of conception behind. I went on antibiotics and passed the rest of it naturally and now I'm over the healing process. Stoppped bleeding and that not. My question is, my parnter wont touch me with a ten foot pole now. He wont have sex with me unless I'm riddled with hormone pills to stop me from falling pregnant and he wants to wear a condom aswell and he wants to ask my doctor are there any other barrier mothods we can put ontop of that too, like a cup or something! It makes me feel so out of touch with him sexually and makes me feel less conncted with him. I don't want to fall pregnant again and I told him after I have just had the D and C it's unlikely I'll fall pregnant again, not until next month when I've started my clycles again. He still wont touch me! I even bargained with him and said, would you just "put it in" so to speak just to see if it hurts or if it's okay to do it? He said I'll fall pregnant from the small amount of precum. I said that was rediculous, but he absolutly refuses to put his penis anywhere near me until I've had all the contraception barriers! Please help me! I don't know what to do!